Although it might not seem like you have time to “recover” from delivery, you and your baby just went through something big. Be kind to yourself, ask questions, and ask for help from your friends, family, or providers.
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Just as every pregnancy is different, so is every childbirth experience. Whether you labored for minutes or days, and whether your delivery felt easy or traumatic, we’ve got your back, when it comes to your recovery. Below, we’ve gathered a wealth of thoroughly researched and expert-reviewed information to help you on your physical postpartum journey, focusing on both vaginal recovery and C-section recovery.
Whereas the final two weeks of pregnancy might have felt like an eternity, the first two postpartum weeks often feel like a blur. This acute recovery period is marked by intense feelings of fatigue and a wide range of emotions, from being overjoyed to being overwhelmed.
Expect postpartum bleeding, called lochia discharge, to gradually fade over a period of six weeks. You may have a few blood clots, but as long as they are smaller than the size of a quarter, they are considered normal. Tell your provider if you pass clots that are larger; this will likely prompt a check for infection or excessive bleeding.
Moms who have had a vaginal delivery might be recovering from stitches, which can be quite painful, especially during those first two weeks. For those who have delivered via C-section, the healing can take much longer. You can take over-the-counter pain- and inflammation-reducing medications such as ibuprofen or acetaminophen to help ease the discomfort.
And then there’s the new challenge of feeding your baby. Whether or not you plan on breastfeeding, childbirth-related hormones will likely induce your milk to show up. The initial type of milk is called colostrum—it’s golden and richer in nutrients than regular breast milk. You will likely start producing regular breast milk—which is whiter, thinner, and more abundant than colostrum—within a week.
About a week after delivery, your breasts may experience engorgement. As your body produces greater amounts of milk, you can experience swelling and discomfort in your breasts. Other symptoms include a low-grade fever, breasts feeling warm to the touch, and swollen lymph nodes in or near your armpits.
The emotional shift that occurs from childbirth is not to be overlooked. Whether you experience mood swings, the baby blues, or perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, remember that your body’s physical and hormonal changes are driving your emotional state. Reach out to your provider, if you feel you would benefit from more support.
Don’t be surprised if you’re still filling up maxi pads with lochia. Bleeding can continue up to the sixth postpartum week, though it should lighten in color and volume over time.
If you’re nursing, you’re probably starting to learn the ropes and get more comfortable in certain positions and with your baby’s feeding routine. Don’t be surprised, however, if you’re still encountering challenges or difficulties with the process, whether it’s mastitis, latching issues, low supply, or just finding your rhythm. People may say breastfeeding is natural, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that the process and mechanics come naturally. Lactation consultants can help.
Your provider will likely ask to see you at two and six weeks postpartum. Bring any questions you may have—no topic is off-limits, from bleeding and breastfeeding to sex and baby blues. Remember that your body is still sorting itself out, so don’t be afraid to ask questions.
At this point, your postpartum bleeding should have stopped. If you had a C-section or episiotomy, your incision will likely be on the way to healing. And you’re probably in some sort of a groove with feeding, changing, and soothing your baby. The physiological changes that have occurred during pregnancy have transitioned into those that are more supportive of breastfeeding. You may feel more stable—or at least more aware of what’s going on in your body. Still, it’s important to take it easy on yourself.
You might also be dealing with some level of incontinence. While normal, this isn’t something you have to just put up with. You can try pelvic-floor physical therapy at any point in your recovery.
You may still feel overwhelmed by motherhood, and you might long for more energy—or for more time to yourself or to be more active. Remember to be patient with yourself, as you learn to balance your little one’s ever-changing needs with your own.
Pregnancy can be a woman’s most transformative experience—physically, mentally, and emotionally.
“Even with the smoothest of births, it's normal to experience some changes postpartum,” says Dr. Jennifer Lincoln, an obstetrician-gynecologist.
While most changes fall within a wide range of “normal,” many women experience physical conditions and complications that may warrant immediate attention. Knowing what to expect, and being in touch with your body, will help you adjust and adapt to the changes you’re going through in the postpartum period.
Here’s a look at the most common conditions and how to care for yourself.
While less common, some serious postpartum complications can occur1. Here's a look at what they are and when to seek help2.
If you’re experiencing the baby blues, but your symptoms feel severe or last longer than a few weeks after childbirth, it’s possible that you’re experiencing a perinatal mood or anxiety disorder (PMAD). The medical community uses this term to encompass the entire spectrum of emotions women may feel during and after pregnancy, including depression, anxiety, psychosis, and rage.
“Postpartum depression and anxiety is the leading complication of childbirth," says Dr. Lincoln, a lactation consultant and medical writer. "We focus on physical risks, but mental-health complications are most prevalent—and partners are susceptible too.”
Like diabetes or heart disease, a PMAD is a serious illness that should be diagnosed, and treated, by a health care professional. Hormonal shifts, identity shifts, sleep deprivation, and labor are just a few of the stressors that can trigger unpredictable responses in the body. The symptoms for PMADs can vary widely, from feelings of confusion to sleep disturbances, so pay attention to your body, and prioritize your health during these busy postpartum weeks and months.
"It's important to remember that mood and anxiety disorders can happen to anyone,” says Chris Raines, a perinatal psychiatric nurse practitioner who has been treating families for 20 years. “It’s completely possible for someone with no previous mental-health conditions to find [themselves] struggling for the first time after having a child.”
If you find yourself struggling at any point in your postpartum period, reach out to your health care provider, or call the 24/7 Postpartum Support International Info helpline at 800-944-4773.
Preeclampsia is typically associated with pregnancy, as it impacts 5 percent to 7 percent of all pregnancies3. However, the condition may also develop in the postpartum period. It occurs when there is a blood pressure reading of 140/90mm Hg or higher, along with changes seen in your liver and kidney function, and it is often difficult to detect on your own. Associated symptoms include severe headaches, changes in vision, abdominal pain, shortness of breath, and vomiting.
Among the most serious reasons for hospital readmission, postpartum preeclampsia is most likely to occur within the first six months after delivery, but can occur up to two years postpartum4.
The causes of postpartum preeclampsia aren't yet well understood, though some research suggests that risk factors include hypertension, obesity, diabetes, preeclampsia during pregnancy, and having multiples5.
If you’re experiencing any of the above symptoms after giving birth, reach out to your health care provider immediately. Left untreated, postpartum preeclampsia can cause life-threatening complications, including seizures, strokes, and pulmonary edema.
Though rare, deep vein thrombosis and pulmonary embolism are leading causes of postpartum maternal death6. The risk is highest in the first few weeks following delivery, and nearly twice as high for women who have delivered by C-section.
These two conditions can occur together or independently. Deep vein thrombosis (DVT) is a blood clot that forms in a deep vein, typically in a leg or the pelvis, while a pulmonary embolism (PE) is a blood clot that travels to the lungs, blocking blood flow.
Symptoms of DVT include swelling of an affected limb, along with pain, tenderness, and warm or discolored skin in that area. If you experience any of these symptoms, contact your health care provider as soon as possible.
Symptoms of a PE include difficulty breathing, coughing up blood, chest pain that worsens with a deep breath, and a fast or irregular heartbeat. If you experience any of those symptoms, seek immediate medical attention.
Risk factors for either of these conditions include previous venous thromboembolism (VTE), hypertension, obesity, pregnancy with multiples, C-section, and a postpartum hemorrhage7. Let your provider know if you or anyone else in your family has ever had a blood clot so that you can be monitored regularly during and after pregnancy, and possibly prescribed a medicine called low-molecular weight heparin to prevent or treat blood clots during and following pregnancy.
For more information, the National Blood Clot Alliance has partnered with the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention to launch a digital public-health education campaign called Stop the Clot, Spread the Word8.
If you lose a large amount of blood following the birth of your baby, you could be among the roughly 3 percent to 5 percent of women who experience a postpartum hemorrhage9. It's a serious complication; postpartum hemorrhage is the world's leading cause of maternal mortality, accounting for about 35 percent of all maternal deaths10.
Most often occurring after the placenta is delivered, hemorrhage is defined as excessive bleeding beyond the half a quart that typically follows the vaginal delivery of a single baby or the full quart that typically follows delivery by C-section.
The most common cause of postpartum hemorrhage is that, following delivery of the baby and placenta, the uterus does not contract strongly enough to compress the blood vessels where the placenta detached from the uterine wall. When these vessels bleed freely, rapid blood loss can result in shock and a severe drop in the mother's blood pressure. Quick detection and treatment often lead to a full recovery.
Risk factors include placental abruption, placenta previa, overdistended uterus, preeclampsia, and the presence of more than one placenta in a multiple pregnancy.
Symptoms can be obvious, like heavy bleeding and decreased blood pressure, but they can also resemble other postpartum complications, from an elevated heart rate to vaginal or perineal swelling.
1 https://www.cdc.gov/hearher/resources/download-share/warning-signs-poster.html
2 https://www.awhonn.org/education/hospital-products/post-birth-warning-signs-education-program/
3 https://www.ahajournals.org/doi/10.1161/CIRCRESAHA.118.313276
4 https://obgyn.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/1471-0528.16545
5 https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/postpartum-preeclampsia/symptoms-causes/syc-20376646
6 https://thrombosisjournal.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/1477-9560-11-4
7 https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/dvt/pregnancy.html
8 https://www.stoptheclot.org/spreadtheword/pregnancy/
9 https://www.aafp.org/afp/2017/0401/p442.html
10 https://www.who.int/medicines/areas/priority_medicines/Ch6_16PPH.pdf
Pregnancy, labor, and delivery bring myriad physiological and psychological changes. A giant surge and depletion of hormones accompanies mental and emotional swings, as well as sleep deprivation. Adjusting to the “new normal” often drains every bit of new-parent energy—already in short supply.
Because many of these adjustments are not regularly or openly discussed, new parents are often “caught off guard” by them, says Emily Guarnotta, a licensed clinical psychologist. “As a society, we have made some progress in talking more openly about the physical and emotional struggles during pregnancy and postpartum, but there is still much stigma and silence surrounding this topic.”
The most important thing to remember about these postpartum changes is that many of them are widely experienced, and you are not alone. Here, we break down what you need to know about some of the major physiological and psychological changes that come with the postpartum package.
One of the first things you’ll experience—regardless of your type of delivery—is bleeding. Your blood volume doubles in pregnancy, so your body can tolerate a lot of blood loss after birth.
At first, the bleeding is the result of the birth itself. The average amount of blood loss for a woman who has a vaginal delivery is about half a quart, while the average for a women who has had a C-section is about a single quart1.
“The significant bleeding that occurs is surprising and distressing to many women, because it is rarely spoken about as a change that women should expect after giving birth,” Dr. Guarnotta says. Another physical change that may take new moms by surprise: the bleeding that continues for up to six weeks postpartum, known as lochia discharge. Lochia is a combination of blood, mucus, and tissue that helps sustain a pregnancy. The color and flow of the vaginal discharge will respectively be darkest and heaviest at first, and should slowly taper off over the next six weeks. Tampons are off-limits until your doctor gives you the green light; you’ll likely wear maxi pads until your six-week postpartum check-in.
If you were anemic prior to giving birth—and many pregnant people are anemic—you may end up more so after delivery. Additionally, if you’ve had a postpartum hemorrhage, you are also more likely to become anemic. Common symptoms of anemia include fatigue and getting more tired than normal with activities you used to be able to tolerate. Discuss with your provider how you can replenish your blood stores.
Delivery of the placenta triggers a series of hormonal changes in your body. Your estrogen, progesterone, and cortisol levels dramatically fall, likely impacting your mood and physical abilities. Extreme highs and lows during pregnancy and the postpartum period are common, and these changes can be challenging to navigate, notes Saba Harouni Lurie, a licensed marriage and family therapist. The drop in estrogen, in particular, can offer a sneak peek into how menopause can impact you, as it is not uncommon to experience hot flashes in these first few postpartum weeks.
One lesser-known effect of the hormonal changes is the impact of estrogen on the vagina. “The decrease in estrogen levels during and after birth—and the additional decrease, if one is breastfeeding—can mean vaginal dryness. And for [many] couples, that can impact intimacy and expectations around sexual penetration,” Lurie explains. “Even though your OB may give you the green light on penetrative sex, your body may not be receptive for a long while.” Lubricants and vaginal estrogen cream can help fight vaginal dryness, particularly if you plan to breastfeed for more than a couple of months.
Roughly 80 percent of women experience the baby blues in the first two weeks after delivery, as a result of the massive shift in hormone levels. During this time, it is common to feel irritable, overwhelmed, and anxious. You may swing between feeling happy and proud to crying and upset. If you have feelings of sadness, hopelessness, detachment from your baby, or difficulty caring for your baby that either persist or get worse after the first two postpartum weeks, reach out to your doctor to get more help. You may be experiencing a PMAD, or postpartum mood and anxiety disorder.
Many people are familiar with the concept of postpartum depression, which affects an estimated 10 percent of U.S. women who have given birth2. Postpartum anxiety is a different condition altogether—and although it’s lesser known, it may actually be even more common than postpartum depression. One study found that one in three women report postpartum anxiety3.
These higher levels of anxiety can come in the form of intrusive thoughts, such as fear of dropping the baby, Dr. Guarnotta warns. “These feelings are distressing, but some heightened anxiety is actually adaptive and causes you to be more on alert to threats to your new baby’s well-being,” she says, “so you’re more likely to keep a close eye.”
While it’s true that sleep is hard to come by in the postpartum period, it’s not exactly something you can save up on prior to your baby’s arrival and cash in on later. Sleep deprivation affects an estimated 8 percent to 13 percent of new moms4 not only due to having to care for and feed their newborn every few hours, but also as a result of increased anxiety and hormonal shifts, according to Dr. Guarnotta.
“This change is normal and may improve with self-care and lifestyle changes,” she says, “but if not, therapy and medication can help.”
This might not sound like a medical condition, but just as there is the “pregnancy brain,” there are also documented changes in the postpartum brain.
“During pregnancy, some parts of a pregnant person’s brain will prune away or decrease in gray matter, and then increase in gray matter in areas that will help the new parent better bond with their child after birth,” Lurie explains. “This process allows a new mother to become more attuned to emotional cues, which in turn helps with bonding. However, it can also mean changes in memory.”
While “mom brain” lingers at different lengths for everyone, you can expect your mind to free up more and more, as your child grows older and becomes more independent.
In a society obsessed with physical appearance, it can be difficult both physically and emotionally to feel like your body is not your own and not something you recognize. Focusing on the incredible things your body does for you and your baby during the pregnancy and postpartum period can be a real game changer, says Kaitlin Soule, a licensed marriage and family therapist.
“When we choose to focus on the power and strength of our bodies, not only can we experience a boost in our sense of self,” Soule says, “but we get to shift our attention away from the way our body looks—something we often don’t have any control over.”
All of these changes are considered “normal,” so long as they’re not long-lasting or disruptive, Soule says.
“It's normal to feel like you’re on a bit of an emotional roller-coaster, as you adjust to a completely new life,” she says. “However, if you stay stuck in one emotional experience, such as anxiety or depression, and it starts to affect your sense of well-being or your relationship with others, then it’s time to reach out for help.”
1 https://www.chop.edu/conditions-diseases/postpartum-hemorrhage
2 https://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/depression/index.htm
3 https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyt.2021.737666/full
4 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30030650/
Your body goes through many changes during pregnancy, ranging from pressure on your bladder to belly expansion to hormonal shifts that can leave you feeling moody, achy, bloated, or nauseated.
As your baby grows inside you, you may spend a lot of time thinking about and discussing the mode of delivery and immediate complications of childbirth, from pain and the risk of bleeding to the return to normal activities. Yet you may be unaware of some of the leading postpartum complications. These challenges include pelvic-floor disorders such as urinary and fecal incontinence, pelvic-organ prolapse, and sexual dysfunction.
Pelvic-floor conditions may take decades to develop and are impacted by other factors such as body mass index, diet, constipation, smoking, and high-impact activities. Being aware of these potential long-term delivery impacts, as well as their risk factors, can help you manage them more effectively.
During your pregnancy, your uterus expands to accommodate your growing baby, and with this change comes a change in your center of gravity.
“To help keep you from tipping forward, your posture adjusts,” explains Ashley Rawlins, a Dallas-based pelvic-floor therapist at Origin Physical Therapy. “At the same time, the muscles in the back have to work harder, and the muscles in the front (your abs) are further elongated and weakened.”
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These breathing exercises and stretches help you start reconnecting with your pelvic floor and breath, as you adjust to your postpartum body. Although they are generally considered safe to start as soon as you feel able in the postpartum period, always check in with your health care provider before returning to exercising.
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Hormonal changes contribute to pelvic ligaments and joints being looser and stretchier, all of which can contribute to weakening of the pelvic floor, notes Jenny Archer, a pelvic-floor therapist.
During a typical birth, your baby’s head comes down into the pelvis and presses against the muscles that line it. As you push, the baby’s head presses against the muscles with such great force that the normal blood flow to these muscles is temporarily cut off. Between each push, fresh blood comes in, and the muscles have time to recover. However, with prolonged pushing, these muscles and nerves can become more stressed, leading to short- and long-term damage.
Two nerves, the pudendal and pelvic nerves, lie on either side of the birth canal and are especially vulnerable to the pressures of labor. The pudendal and pelvic nerves carry the signals from the brain to the muscles that hold the bladder and rectum in place1. If these nerves are injured, the signals meant for the muscles around the bladder, vagina, and rectum may not be properly transmitted, which can result in a weakening of the pelvic floor.
Furthermore, research has shown that certain factors, such as a large baby, prolonged labor, a baby being in a challenging birthing position (such as “sunny-side up” or “breech”) during labor, or vaginal delivery assisted by a medical device such as forceps or a vacuum, all increase the risk of pelvic-floor disorders down the road2.
Because planned C-sections avoid the stretching and tearing of the muscles and nerves that occurs as the baby's head comes through the pelvis, it is not surprising that women who have a C-section have a lower risk of a pelvic-floor disorder, such as urinary incontinence, anal incontinence, or prolapse3.
That said, a C-section doesn’t eliminate these risks, as many pelvic-floor disorders are related to pregnancy rather than labor.
“Not all women with vaginal deliveries have pelvic-floor issues, and cesarean section does come with its own set of risks,” says Dr. Michele Torosis, an obstetrician-gynecologist. “I am certainly not suggesting electing for a cesarean section with the sole intention of avoiding risk for pelvic-floor disorders.”
How your pelvic floor is affected by birth often depends on the circumstances of your pregnancy, labor, and delivery. Studies have shown that nearly 24 percent of women in the United States have at least one pelvic-floor disorder4. A woman’s lifetime risk for surgery for a pelvic-floor disorder is 20 percent5. These common conditions are seldom discussed in the postpartum period because most disorders present many years after childbirth or are brushed off as a normal part of recovery.
Three out of four women experience vaginal-bulge symptoms at eight weeks postpartum, and the bulge symptoms typically resolve within a year6. Issues with incontinence are more likely to manifest in the first five years after childbirth, while pelvic-organ prolapse typically takes 10 or more years after delivery to become an issue.
Once your baby arrives, it takes a minimum of six weeks to heal from the experiences of childbirth. It can take the pelvic floor, organs, and pelvic joints as long as a full year to return to a pre-pregnancy state.
“Depending on how the baby was born, most patients feel ‘back to normal’ within three to four months, with continued healing for up to a year postpartum,” Archer says. “Rest and nutrition play a big role here, with improved healing rates in people who are able to get more rest and eat more nutritious foods postpartum.”
Pelvic-floor exercises can also help facilitate your pelvic and abdominal recovery, regardless of how challenging your pregnancy or birthing experiences may have been.
Pelvic-floor exercises, which include stretches and breathing methods, can help support improved bladder, bowel, and sexual functions.
"When restoring a happy and healthy pelvic floor, we should focus on so much more than just strength; we want balance,” Rawlins says.
“To best support bowel, bladder, and sexual function—as well as all of your normal daily activities—we need muscles that have appropriate endurance, coordination, flexibility, and even speed (think: the quick reaction that is needed for those unexpected sneezes!),” Rawlins adds. “This is especially true in the postpartum period, when your body and your muscles have been put through the ultimate test.”
Vaginal deliveries—particularly with a first child—are largely unpredictable and uncontrollable. No two moms have the exact same experience, and physicians may deem certain procedures necessary in certain childbirth situations. That said, certain childbirth events have a reputation for increasing your risk of developing postpartum incontinence, and there are certain things that can minimize these particular risks when in labor. These events (and mitigators):
Operative delivery leads to urinary incontinence
If you’re experiencing any of these symptoms, or just don’t feel right in your pelvic region, contact your health care provider, or bring your symptoms up during one of your postpartum visits. There are many solutions to remedy a weak pelvic floor, including Kegels, or pelvic-floor muscle resistance training, as well as working with a pelvic-floor physical therapist who can create a specific plan for you.
Finding a pelvic-floor therapist might not be as easy as it seems, especially if you live in a rural part of the country. Your doctor might recommend one that is affiliated with your hospital or medical network, or you can work with a PT at Origin, which has five physical locations in Los Angeles and also offers virtual visits that you can do from the comfort of your home (something that definitely comes in handy during those first few years with a little one).
1 https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/22000-pudendal-nerve
2 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/labs/pmc/articles/PMC3877300/
3 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22814811/#:~:text=Elective%20Cesarean%20section%20carries%20diminished,pregnancy%20as%20a%20preventive%20strategy.
4 https://www.nih.gov/news-events/news-releases/roughly-one-quarter-us-women-affected-pelvic-floor-disorders
5 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/labs/pmc/articles/PMC4174312/#:~:text=Based%20on%20a%20U.S.%20claims,by%20the%20age%20of%2080.
6 https://www.voicesforpfd.org/new-mothers/pelvic-floor-health-for-new-moms/#:~:text=In%20a%20study%20of%20women,still%20persist%20at%201%20year.
7 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6371916/
8 https://www.acog.org/clinical/clinical-guidance/practice-bulletin/articles/2020/04/operative-vaginal-birth
You can prepare for a smoother postpartum recovery by stocking your home with these products.
These products will come in handy after a vaginal delivery to help ease your recovery process.
Bleeding can be a lot to handle, physically and emotionally. It’s normal, and these products can help keep the area clean, as you heal.
Your C-section incision needs extra care and support during your postpartum recovery. These products are great to have handy.
If in pain, these products can help bring relief.
Having clothes and other items to support breastfeeding will make the process as smooth and comfortable as possible.
Consuming appropriate amounts of water, snacks, vitamins, and supplements will help support everything from childbirth healing to helping your baby develop strong bones.
Your pregnancy-oriented doctor visits don’t end with giving birth. You can expect to have two important postpartum appointments—about two and six weeks after delivery, respectively. Whether you’re looking forward to them, or they seem like extraneous items on your overloaded to-do list, these are key opportunities to talk to your doctor. Do not blow them off.
Going to the doctor might be the last thing on your mind or seem unnecessary, especially if you feel pretty good, or don’t feel that you have any extenuating healing circumstances or medical issues that need immediate attention. However, the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology recommends seeing your obstetrics provider in the first three weeks after delivery, and most OBs increasingly recommend an in-office follow-up two weeks postpartum.
At your postpartum visits, your doctor or midwife will check on your physical, mental, and emotional health, but you’ll also have a chance to ask questions about your labor and delivery, as well as your recovery. From breastfeeding to sleep (or lack thereof) to parenting methods to what is (and isn’t) normal with your physical or mental recovery, anything is fair game.
While there isn’t much you need to do before your postpartum visits, there are ways to prepare for them.
“It's a great idea to have your top questions written down so you don't forget them,” says Dr. Jennifer Lincoln, an obstetrician-gynecologist. “Between sleep deprivation and ‘mom brain,’ it can be hard to keep it all straight!”
Dr. Michele Torosis, a female pelvic medicine and reconstructive surgery fellow at UCLA Health, shares her answers to the common questions that come up with her patients at these checkups.
These visits are important opportunities to address your challenges and concerns, from managing pain to planning for a future pregnancy. Here are some questions to come prepared with—and a preview of responses your provider might have for you.
Here’s what you can expect from your postpartum visits and how to optimize the time spent with your provider.
One of the most fundamental purposes of the postpartum visits is to assess how you’re physically recovering. Your doctor will perform a pelvic exam to make sure that any vaginal lacerations are healing—and that your uterus is shrinking back to its pre-baby size, which will happen whether you delivered vaginally or via C-section.
You might be wondering about your uterus—or maybe your body’s shape in general. Don’t worry if you still feel about six months pregnant. According to Dr. Lincoln, it usually takes about six weeks after childbirth for your uterus to return to its normal size (about the size of an apple).
After your doctor or midwife finishes the physical exam, it’s a good time to ask questions about any symptoms you’ve been experiencing, such as bleeding, blood clots, constipation, hemorrhoids, or urinary incontinence. Most of these symptoms are par for the course, when it comes to recovery, but it still may be comforting to hear that from your doctor.
Your doctor will likely broach the subject of contraception, if not at your second-week postpartum visit, then at your sixth-week postpartum visit. While getting pregnant again might not be the first (second, or tenth!) thing on your mind, it’s important to discuss the possibility. In fact, the American College of Gynecology (ACOG) warns against women getting pregnant in intervals shorter than 6 months1. Not to be too alarmist, but there are risks to be aware of.
“Pregnancies that are conceived in this short interval are at slightly higher risks for complications like preterm birth and, if you've birthed by cesarean, for uterine rupture as the scar has not had time to fully heal,” says Dr. Lincoln.
There are a few things to consider regarding contraception, however. “If you are exclusively breastfeeding, lactational amenorrhea may be a form of birth control for you, but review this with your provider to ensure you meet the criteria for it to work best,” says Dr. Lincoln. And believe it or not, your period may return as early as your sixth postpartum week, so depending on your situation, contraception may be your best bet to prevent a pregnancy so soon2.
Dr. Lincoln tells her patients “estrogen should be avoided in breastfeeding until milk is well established, and even then can potentially interfere.”3 Never fear, though. Plenty of birth control methods are safe after pregnancy. These include:
If you’re breastfeeding, your provider can discuss methods that won’t interfere with your milk supply.
A big portion of your postpartum visit should be dedicated to discussing how you’re feeling, mentally and emotionally. Having a baby is a giant life transition, and it’s going to be at least a little bumpy. It’s incredibly normal to experience what’s called the baby blues, or feelings of sadness that accompany the postpartum period. In fact, 70 percent to 80 percent of moms experience this very thing4.
Baby blues might feel like mood swings: One moment you’re elated that you’re finally holding your sweet baby, while the next you may feel tearful for seemingly no reason. Don’t worry—this fluctuating state of emotions often subsides after a few weeks, but mention it to your doctor if it doesn’t, or if it gets worse. It’s possible that your baby blues might fall into the category of a perinatal mood and anxiety disorder (PMAD), often collectively referred to as postpartum depression or anxiety. PMADs are more serious than baby blues, persist beyond the first few postpartum weeks, and typically require medical treatment.
How are you feeling? Learn more about whether your emotional state is normal, or if something more serious may be going on.
Remember: No question is a bad question. Be sure to discuss any and all concerns you may have with your provider. Your health and wellness is needed to ensure your baby’s health and wellness.
1 https://www.acog.org/clinical/clinical-guidance/obstetric-care-consensus/articles/2019/01/interpregnancy-care
2 https://www.acog.org/clinical/clinical-guidance/obstetric-care-consensus/articles/2019/01/interpregnancy-care#:~:text=Women%20should%20be%20advised%20to,pregnancy%20sooner%20than%2018%20months.
3 https://abm.memberclicks.net/assets/DOCUMENTS/PROTOCOLS/13-contraception-and-breastfeeding-protocol-english.pdf
4 https://americanpregnancy.org/healthy-pregnancy/first-year-of-life/baby-blues/